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12 weeks & getting an abortion

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10 years 10 months ago #1 by talisaxo
talisaxo replied the topic: Re:12 weeks & getting an abortion
I definitely agree with the other girls here! You love your child that is inside you and your living one. It may get tough but that's the way life is inteaded to be. Excuse my spelling. I thought of having an abortion and the day came and I backed out. I realized I loved the child as much as I should. Good luck, make the right decision!! Please.

Talisa

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10 years 10 months ago #2 by gina lynn
gina lynn replied the topic: Re:12 weeks & getting an abortion
oh girl please dont loose hope, there are other ways to deal with it. please consider adoption... someone who is unfortunate and cant have children would be so grateful to adopt the one you cant take care of, and you wouldnt be taking an innocent life... please dont make the same mistake again. your baby deserves a chance, even if you cant give it a good chance someone else can, so consider adoption.

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10 years 10 months ago #3 by kez_mummy_2_skye
kez_mummy_2_skye replied the topic: Re:12 weeks & getting an abortion
i couldnt do it. Adoption would be the best way.That baby inside you is now a human...it has a heart and brain!
I think by reading about how you said you feel about this child.If you had the abortion it would tear you apart...

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10 years 10 months ago #4 by Crystal32
Crystal32 replied the topic: Re:12 weeks & getting an abortion
I encourage anyone that is considering abortion to watch this video - it is not gross but it gives you a view of what the baby goes through. The video is of an abortion that you see through ultrasound. it is not gory. It basically shows you that the baby is scared and tries to use its insticts of survival even in the womb - but it is not a match for an abortionist. I hope this does not offend anyone - i am not trying to preach about not getting an abortion - just to look at it from this perspective.

http://www.silentscream.org/video1.htm

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10 years 10 months ago #5 by Hermia2012
Hermia2012 replied the topic: Re:12 weeks & getting an abortion
yeah try adoption... i was adopted and i am so glad that my biological mother had the courage to do that. adoption is an option... please think about that... and that would be showing the world how much you really love your baby.....
please keep thinking about that and dont get the abortion... please continue to really think about that.

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10 years 10 months ago #6 by lisa
lisa replied the topic: Re:12 weeks & getting an abortion
Hi I'm Lisa and I just wanted to share with you that abortion is NOT the answer. You already have a sweet love for your baby and even your mom would support your choosing life. Please please read the stories from the girls on this site. And from ME! Abortion NEVER GOES AWAY! It stays in a broken place in your heart and your baby will always be only a memory. You mentioned in another letter that you wanted to choose the baby that is alive right now. Both babies are alive, did you know that? That baby that is inside of your womb is a fully formed, living, breathing baby that sucks his/her thumb.

You said that you are about 12 weeks. Ohhhhhhhh please know that it will take 2 days for this abortion procedure to complete. I know some girls that have experienced abortion at this far. Please, please - this will be a memory that will be more painful that you can ever imagine.

The father of your baby will just have to take a breath and take a Stand and BE A MAN! Not to ask you to have to take on the burden and the full responsibility this tragic decision. If he made the appointment, let HIM go. Please know I'm not trying to sound mean or anything like that. I just know that if you take a Stand, if you tell your mom that you have decided that you are going to keep this beautiful little baby of yours - and you tell your bf that you have chosen to take a stand for the life of your baby ... I promise you that you will be relieved. I think the hardest part right now is you are being so sweet and you want to please everyone else, but it is at the cost of your heart.

You said that your son just turned 4 years old. Please think of this. What would happen if you had chosen abortion for your 4 year old son? Can you imagine life without him? I know that would be too difficult to even think about wouldn’t it? But you WILL think the same thing once you are holding this precious little beautiful baby in your arms.

Remember when you held your son right after he was born? Remember what it was like to listen to him make those cute little cooing noises when he was eating when he was a tiny little baby? Do you remember what he smelled like right after a bath and as he slept in your arms, d you remember what it felt like to brush your hand over the top of his head?

That very same kind of baby is growing inside of you right now. Right now all your baby needs to survive outside of your womb is time. Time to grow bigger and stronger. All of his/her organs and body parts are there. They are formed and your baby can even hear the sound of your voice. Weather you talk, laugh … or even cry.

Please listen to your motherly heart. Choose life for your baby. Tell the father of your baby that you are choosing life and he can either Stand with you or not … but you choose to Stand.

There is absolutely NOTHING for him to be scared of. Only something for him to be excited about. OK?

Please choose life.

Luv Lisa

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