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Really, really scared

5 years 8 months ago - 5 years 8 months ago #1 by Gloria454
Gloria454 replied the topic: Re: Really, really scared
Hi, first of all you should be sure that your are pregnant, what symptoms do you have???? The best way out is to consult dr, you also can read here about symptoms! So I think it's better tell to your mom, I hope she'll understnd you, good luck!!!

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5 years 9 months ago #2 by teka_steward3
teka_steward3 replied the topic: Re: Really, really scared
Hey SarsM,
First thing you need to do is try and tell your mom. Just sit her down at the house or take her to coffee. Be relaxed, explain the situation! She might be disappointed at first, but just explain you need help knowing what to do and how to go about things. That you want to keep your baby. Crying is ok to do~ :) I had my daughter in high school and just got support from my parents and friends. I also was able to go to my local pregnancy center for help with diapers, clothes, and classes for parenting. They also did my first untra sound and explained everything to me. It was very helpful and it reassured me that I CAN do it~ I can be a StandUpGirl! :) I wouldnt trade her for the world!
Go to optionline.org and find one near you. you can also call them at 1800 395 4357. If youre in the US. You can get on WIC (woman, infant and child) to help you with food and formula! :)
Try and calm down. If needed turn your phone off for an hour or so and just sit quietly in your favorite place. Let things settle in~ Youll do great! Send in a DearBecky letter for a one on one contact through the whole thing~ :) our SUGs will be more than willing to help you!
Or you can email me at teka@standupgirl.com and I can further assist you as well!

Good luck sweetie!

ill be praying for it all!

<3 Teka

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5 years 9 months ago #3 by SarsM
SarsM created the topic: Really, really scared
Took home pregnancy test last week. Positive. I know it has to be right because I've had some symptoms that match up and I know my body really well.

Haven't told anyone but my boyfriend and one friend. My boyfriend is just as scared as I am. I think he is trying to be supportive but we're both fighting SO bad!

His parents are going to hate me. My mother is going to kill me. What do I do? How do I even begin to tell her? I know I need to go to a proper doctor and I don't know anything! I want to be happy about this, but I'm TERRIFIED! I'm still in school. What's going to happen. I don't know.

I'm very confused and upset and I'm making myself vomit not from some morning sickness but from STRESS. I feel so many things I can't say them all. Any advice please.

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