×
Welcome - Login and Forum Rules

Our forum is open to Registered Members to post. Please register for more forum features available to you. If you are an existing member please login and click on the category title to post. All content in this Forum, as well as the entire site, will be moderated. This means that anything written will not be posted right away but will first have to pass an approval process. This usually does not take more than 1 to 2 days if not sooner. Not everything that is written will be published on this site. We do not tolerate foul language or obscene imagery. Please keep this in mind when posting. Please limit the size of your post to 500 characters or less.

so sad...... don't know what to do.

More
8 years 8 months ago #1 by kez_mummy_2_skye
kez_mummy_2_skye replied the topic: Re:so sad...... don't know what to do.
there is plenty of others out there that can do it so why cant you.

Please Log in or Create an account to join the conversation.

More
8 years 8 months ago #2 by myangelsinheaven
myangelsinheaven replied the topic: Re:so sad...... don't know what to do.
Hi Luckylove,
Everyone posted wonderful advice to you. I hope you've really heard what they've tried to tell you.

I will however add, that the life inside you was given to you by the grace and blessing of God. Life is not for us to take freely, for any reason!!! There is no justification.....there will only be pain and despair at the loss of that unseen face, unheard voice, skin that would never be caressed and the loss of a smile that the world will never see.

You believe this man to be your 'soulmate' so try and understand that he is a blessing as well that God sent to you. He brought the two of you together for a reason.....if you believe him to be your soulmate, you can be sure that God did not intend to have you kill the child that he created out of your love for oneanother. That would be a slap in God's face. He is giving you a chance at happiness and asking you to walk the path of FAITH and trust. Trust that this man will love you for loving his child. It may take until he sees the baby's face in ultrasound, or feel it's first movements in your womb.....have Faith that God will bring this 'soulmate' of yours one step further for you and your baby.

If you accept LIFE, and carry this beautiful baby, He will bless you with more rewards for your obedience.

God constantly gives us opportunities to turn our lives around and make a better one full of healthy choices and one that shows LOVE for oneanother. This includes the unborn!!

Your choice can make a difference for other young women. We have to make a stand sometime concerning abortion.

There doesn't have to be LEGAL HOMOCIDE in the United States, but it is available because we ask for it.

If you have any faith in the Lord, I ask you to talk to Him now, and ask Him for the strength to stand up for your baby....and say no to killing a child.

Your 'soulmate' may feel this is the only answer, but he may just need to hear you tell him how wrong it is. He may say, "You know, you're right...we can do this, we can have this baby, and still get married. There's no way this world is going to pressure us into letting go of this child." You can be the one to change the views of your soulmate, the views of those immediately around you, for the future pregnant women...for the future babies who may be mothers one day.

We are called to minister to one another. It is our duty...and so I am ministering to you friend in your time of need. I hope to raise you up when you are low and carry you when you are weak. Through prayer and council I hope to do for you what no one did for me.

You and your baby will be in my prayers,
myangelsinheaven

Please Log in or Create an account to join the conversation.

  • MissKirsty
  • MissKirsty's Avatar
8 years 8 months ago #3 by MissKirsty
MissKirsty replied the topic: Re:so sad...... don't know what to do.
How are you doing? Have you decided what you are going to do?

Please Log in or Create an account to join the conversation.

More
8 years 9 months ago #4 by tracymom
tracymom replied the topic: Re:so sad...... don't know what to do.
If he is going to marry you anyway, then what is the difference between keeping your child now and having him/her after the marriage? Is it a boy or a girl? How big is the baby? How fast is the heartbeat? Don't pretend it's not a life or a human being. First find out the answers to these questions before you decide. You don't really want to kill your baby do you?
You had a tough time raising your daughter alone. Do you wish you rather aborted her?

Please Log in or Create an account to join the conversation.

More
8 years 9 months ago #5 by tracymom
tracymom replied the topic: Re:so sad...... don't know what to do.
luckylove, I hear your situation, I do. Let me tell you a story. My parents didn't use contraception, and they ended up having 13 children. 2 died, one at four by spider bite and the other still born. We're eleven brother's and sisters. My father died when I was two. My mother bacame a persioner at the age of 43. She had a 2, 4,8,10,13,15,17,18,20,21,22year old. My brother had just turned 21. I was the youngest. Yes, we struggled, but we are all successful today. I am 23, studying chemistry, married with a little one of 6 months. HAVE YOUR LITTLE BABY. DON"T GRIEVE ANOTHER ONE! abortion is another funeral for you. Your child will survive the circumstances. We all did. My mother didn't wish that half of us (or more) was dead. Abortion is not best for you. It is you who feels the life in you and you who will feel the loss and emptiness. Your boyfriend doesn't understand. I think that if you could explain the kind of life your baby will have growing up to your baby, I think he will still say, "Mommy please keep me." Please love this one enough. Have the faith to go on. Let God carry you. PRAY. It's a little baby, with little fingers and little toes. Let him live so you can hear him giggle, see him smile. He wants to meet you, lie on your chest. Abortion is a horrific death for your unborn promise. I've seen an ultrasound video of a baby being aborted. you can google it. The baby's heartbeat reaches over 200 beats per minute, and tries to swim away from the instruments of the abortionist. The baby's mouth is open (screaming). Okay, your daughter is not having the greatest life in the world (compared to many it is quite fine), but imagine her being ripped apart at your command - to save her apparently - is that better? Your daughter has life, breath, and she has her mommy. Ask her if she wishes you rather aborted her. Your baby is safe now inside your womb, but you want your womb to become the grave place for him/her. The hellhole of existence. Yeah you can always have children, but you'll never have this one! No one can stop you from keeping your baby! When your boyfriend first sees your child, he will never wish he killed him/her! My brother wanted his girlfriend to abort their child. She made the appointment, but just didn't go. She just went ahead merrily and had the child. Now I can't believe they wanted to kill my 3 year old nephew. He thinks his a rock star and he loves Barney! He says he is "sree yes owd"! Have mercy on your child, let your grace abound. Forgive your child for being conceived. Take it one day at a time, you may be dead tomorrow. If I was in your situation, I'd keep my child! Let there not be 2 or more abortions to your name. Where is the baby you aborted now? He is with the Lord, wondering when he will meet you. How old would he have been?

Please Log in or Create an account to join the conversation.

  • MissKirsty
  • MissKirsty's Avatar
8 years 9 months ago #6 by MissKirsty
MissKirsty replied the topic: Re:so sad...... don't know what to do.
Look hun, I know that this is a really really hard thing. I know that you don't want to lose your bf and you don't think that it would be fair to your daughter or your baby to keep the baby. But you know what? LIFE IS WORTH LIVING!!! Do you really honestly want to have another abortion? Look if your bf won't stick with you when you have a baby, he's really not worth your time, and he is especially not worth killing for.
If he really loves you you should get married. If not, you should stop having sex and wait until you really are sure that he is the 'one'. But don't kill your baby because of a mistake that you made. Adoption is always an option, ya know.
Your baby deserves to have a chance at life. Just because you had an abortion last time doesn't mean that you should have another one or that it was the right decision.
At the very least do some research on abortions. Don't let yourself have the regret of not knowing what it was you were deciding.
I know that this is a really tough thing, and my heart aches for you. I hope that everything works out for you!
Hugs!

Please Log in or Create an account to join the conversation.

Moderators: Dnash76sugMolly

Need Help?

standupgirl contact becky

standupgirl app

Translate Our Page

enes

StandUpGirl Login

Welcome to StandUpGirl