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Is she CRAZY?!?!?!

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9 years 9 months ago #1 by MissTeenAmerica
MissTeenAmerica replied the topic: Re:Is she CRAZY?!?!?!
You obviously know that you are a good mother, you don't need anyone to tell you that. When I am faced with situations like these, where I have people questioning my abilities as a soon-to-be mom or giving me an unsupportive reaction to my decision to keep my baby, I do my best to show them that I am mature enough to handle the responsibility reguardless of what they think by saying things like...
\"I appriciate you telling me your opinion, however, I disagree with you, and I hope you can be supportive of my decision.\" By lashing out you are only making the problem bigger, but you can't sit there and say nothing. If she continues to act unsupportive, then don't spend time with her. Surround yourself with people who do support you, and put yourself and your baby in a POSITIVE enviornment.
Or you could try voodoo or something. hahaha.

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10 years 4 weeks ago #2 by alexanders_mama
alexanders_mama replied the topic: Re:Is she CRAZY?!?!?!
Aww, that's just plain horrible to say thigns like that, especially coming from your aunt.
Man, I'd be so annoyed. Every mother, no matter what her age is, gets overwhelmed when a new baby comes along, and when they hear deragoratory comments like that it makes things just worse. Don't ever let her convince you of these things, because you know yourself that it isn't true.
Just keep focusing on your baby. I'm sure you're a great mother.
Just ignore her as much as you can, a sharp witty remark will do, I don't think anything good would come out of a long chat at the current moment, except for get you more upset.

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10 years 1 month ago #3 by mommy6
mommy6 replied the topic: Re:Is she CRAZY?!?!?!
i think shes very rude for taking it to that level every mother no matter what there age feels over whelmed n if thats the case we are all mental n have to give our kids away lol dont think so tell her to mind her own buss.

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10 years 1 month ago #4 by mizzunderstood
mizzunderstood replied the topic: Re:Is she CRAZY?!?!?!
dont worry it takes some time getting used to u are a good momand it also learning process she ahd do right even suggesting that to u

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10 years 1 month ago #5 by health_hd
health_hd replied the topic: Re:Is she CRAZY?!?!?!
yeah, that would make me really mad too. I don't understand why a family member would say something like that. I think that over time your aunt or mom will get used to the fact that you have a baby and will accept it. I would just tell them that I love my child more than anything and would never give them up for anything in the world. I guess there is nothing you can do about it to change their minds just yet, except waiting over time for their opinions to change positively. good luck.

-heather:)

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10 years 1 month ago #6 by bweber
bweber replied the topic: Re:Is she CRAZY?!?!?!
im srry hun. some family never get over ur choice to have the baby and not abort or give him/her up for adoption. next time she says anything just tell her that 'everybody even older women who are a first time mom become overwhelmed, so would she tell them to give up their baby?'.....so good luck and just remember ur doing fine!

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