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I’m so glad you stopped by StandUpGirl.com. Maybe you’re pregnant, or worried that you might be pregnant. You feel scared, overwhelmed, alone. I’ve been there, too. Need someone to talk to…someone you can be real with? We’re here for you. We have an amazing community of women here. Women who get what you’re going through, because they’ve lived through it. Women who care! Learn about Early Pregnancy Symptoms and use the pregnancy calculator tool.

I hope StandUpGirl.com can be the pregnancy support network that you so desperately need at this time in your life. Our stories are a lot like yours.  If we can do it, so can you! We girls need each other.  Remember, You are not alone!

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Hi, My Name is Becky!

I’m so glad you stopped by StandUpGirl.com. Maybe you’re pregnant, or worried that you might be pregnant. You feel scared, overwhelmed, alone. I’ve been there, too. Need someone to talk to…someone you can be real with? We’re here for you. We have an amazing...

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Featured Real Stories

pregnant and parents
Hey Dad, I’m Late!

Hey Dad, I’m Late!

Hi Becky, I was 19 years old when I got pregnant. My mom and sister already got their menstrual period so I was thinking maybe I'm just delayed or something. But then again thoughts came to my mind. We just moved in Canada. Before we left the...

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Pretty and pregnant
Pretty Pregnant

Pretty Pregnant

When I was young I've always ask my mom what's the feeling of pregnant, she always says, "It's very hard because I couldn't do what I've ever wanted. Like drinking soda, eating my favorite junk foods. But in the other side of my mind, it's very...

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walk in my shoes
Julia’s Story

Julia’s Story

My maiden name is Julia Holcomb and I am writing in response to Kevin Burke’s article Post Abortion Trauma from the National Review.  I found the article he wrote about Steven Tyler remarkably compassionate while outlining the trauma of...

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My First Born

My First Born

I was 16 years old when I felt pregnant with my first born. She was born this year 2018 but my pregnancy was very stress full like if I'm going to be a good mom or if I will be able to look after her.  When I went into labor it was painful.  A...

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pro-life is pro-choice
If My Contraceptive Fails

If My Contraceptive Fails

Dear Becky, Back in the 80s when I was in college (where else?), I had my first sexual encounter. I grew up Catholic but I became cold to it because it was too strict on "fun." Well, my new mindset led me to my abortion. Before I became sexually...

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life is precious
Adoption Over Abortion

Adoption Over Abortion

If My Little Voice Could Speak By: Shelbea Riddle -An Adopted High School Senior 10 little fingers 10 little toes I am so cute. But nobody knows. Only God, Who fearfully and wonderfully made me. He knows. He knows I am perfect. If I could have...

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Jack Nicholson

jack nicolson“My opinions on abortion were formed by personal experience.  I discovered the woman I thought was my sister was actually my mother, and the woman I knew as my mother was my grandmother. My mother became pregnant as a teenager and was encouraged to have an abortion, even back in 1937, but she chose life for me….it made me pro-life.” #jacknicholson

Jack Nicholson | Actor

Kenny Chesney

kenny chesney“Chesney’s pro-life advocacy is in the song he has called one of his favorites, ‘There Goes My Life’. Story of a teenager whose girlfriend gets pregnant and has the baby rather than having an abortion. Iin the end, he realizes how much of a blessing his child is.” #kennychesney

Kenny Chesney  | Singer  

Jordan Sparks

jordan sparks“Sparks participates in pro-life conferences as a volunteer and singer. She sang at Arizona’s Right to Life 2005 conference. Sparks hasn’t been shy about her pro-life beliefs. Asked about a ring she wears on her wedding ring finger …it’s my Purity Ring, symbolizing I am waiting until I am married, and saving myself for true love.” #jordansparks

Jordan Sparks | singer

Jim Caviezel

jim caviezel“Being Pro-Life is important to me. How are we so arrogant to not think of the 51.5 million babies who have died in this country… Look, I am for helping women. I just don’t see abortion as helping women. And I don’t love my career that much to say, I’m going to remain silent on this.” #jimcaviezel

Jim Caviezel | Actor

Nick Cannon

nick cannonNick Cannon has been known to speak out against abortion before, most notably in a song he wrote about his own mother who had considered aborting him. In the song, Can I Live? He thanks his mother for choosing life.

Nick Cannon | Actor/singer

Phil Robertson

phil robertson“Duck Dynasty’s Robertson in what appears to be a religious sermon – declares his pro-life stance on the issue of abortion. When discussing the ethics of, and that there’s a debate on the issue, he asks, “What in the world happened to us?.” #duckdynasty #philrobertson

Phil Robertson | Duck Dynasty

Kevin Sorbo

kevin sorbo“Sorbo recently tweeted his support for the new Gosnell Movie that will profile the gruesome late-term abortion practitioner. This is something that my wife and I are behind because we believe in this project. It’s long overdue for this story to be told, it wasn’t covered by the media nearly as much as other murder cases were.” #KevinSorbo

Kevin Sorbo | Actor

Mel Gibson

mel gibson“God is the only one who knows how many children we should have, and we should be ready to accept them. One can’t decide for oneself who comes into this world and who doesn’t. That decision doesn’t belong to us.” #melgibson

Mel Gibson | Actor/Director

Patricia Heaton

patricia heaton“Every 36 seconds in America a women lays her body down, forced to choose abortion out of a lack of practical resources and emotional support. Abortion is a reflection that society has failed women.”  #patriciaheaton

Patricia Heaton | Actress   

Kathy Ireland

kathy_ireland“I was told it was a lose-lose situation and would kill my business to pronounce I am Pro-Life. But I thought if I did this maybe one woman watching wouldn’t kill her baby. We need to support these women who are in a crisis pregnancy… I have no choice but to defend the most vulnerable among us.” #kathyireland
 
Kathy Ireland | Supermodel