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I’m so glad you stopped by StandUpGirl.com. Maybe you’re pregnant, or worried that you might be pregnant. You feel scared, overwhelmed, alone. I’ve been there, too. Need someone to talk to…someone you can be real with? We’re here for you. We have an amazing community of women here. Women who get what you’re going through, because they’ve lived through it. Women who care! Learn about Early Pregnancy Symptoms and use the pregnancy calculator tool.
I hope StandUpGirl.com can be the pregnancy support network that you so desperately need at this time in your life. Our stories are a lot like yours. If we can do it, so can you! We girls need each other. Remember, You are not alone!
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I've never blogged before.. Or talked to anyone about this besides the people in my life I'm closest too so this is a new thing for me. I guess the way I'm going about trying to get better just isn't working so it's time to try something new....
My friend recommended this site to me. She said that it helped her heal from her decision, and although mine was almost 10 years and 8 months ago now, time, and pro-life advocacy groups have done nothing for the wound. I guess my story starts...
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“My opinions on abortion were formed by personal experience. I discovered the woman I thought was my sister was actually my mother, and the woman I knew as my mother was my grandmother. My mother became pregnant as a teenager and was encouraged to have an abortion, even back in 1937, but she chose life for me….it made me pro-life.” #jacknicholson
Jack Nicholson | Actor
“Chesney’s pro-life advocacy is in the song he has called one of his favorites, ‘There Goes My Life’. Story of a teenager whose girlfriend gets pregnant and has the baby rather than having an abortion. Iin the end, he realizes how much of a blessing his child is.” #kennychesney
Kenny Chesney | Singer
“Sparks participates in pro-life conferences as a volunteer and singer. She sang at Arizona’s Right to Life 2005 conference. Sparks hasn’t been shy about her pro-life beliefs. Asked about a ring she wears on her wedding ring finger …it’s my Purity Ring, symbolizing I am waiting until I am married, and saving myself for true love.” #jordansparks
Jordan Sparks | singer
“Being Pro-Life is important to me. How are we so arrogant to not think of the 51.5 million babies who have died in this country… Look, I am for helping women. I just don’t see abortion as helping women. And I don’t love my career that much to say, I’m going to remain silent on this.” #jimcaviezel
Jim Caviezel | Actor
Nick Cannon has been known to speak out against abortion before, most notably in a song he wrote about his own mother who had considered aborting him. In the song, Can I Live? He thanks his mother for choosing life.
Nick Cannon | Actor/singer
“Duck Dynasty’s Robertson in what appears to be a religious sermon – declares his pro-life stance on the issue of abortion. When discussing the ethics of, and that there’s a debate on the issue, he asks, “What in the world happened to us?.” #duckdynasty #philrobertson
Phil Robertson | Duck Dynasty
“Sorbo recently tweeted his support for the new Gosnell Movie that will profile the gruesome late-term abortion practitioner. This is something that my wife and I are behind because we believe in this project. It’s long overdue for this story to be told, it wasn’t covered by the media nearly as much as other murder cases were.” #KevinSorbo
Kevin Sorbo | Actor
“God is the only one who knows how many children we should have, and we should be ready to accept them. One can’t decide for oneself who comes into this world and who doesn’t. That decision doesn’t belong to us.” #melgibson
Mel Gibson | Actor/Director
Patricia Heaton | Actress
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I’m so glad you stopped by StandUpGirl.com. Maybe you’re pregnant, or worried that you might be pregnant. You feel scared, overwhelmed, alone. I’ve been there, too. Need someone to talk to…someone you can be real with? We’re here for you. We have an amazing community of women here. Women who get what you’re going through, because they’ve lived through it. Women who care. Learn about Early Pregnancy Symptoms, pregnancy calculator tools.
Think you are the only one dealing with something this huge? I felt that way, too. Finding out I had an unplanned pregnancy turned my whole life upside down. I felt like I had nowhere to turn…no one who could understand. I hope StandUpGirl.com can be the pregnancy support network that you so desperately need at this time in your life. Our stories are a lot like yours of planned or unplanned pregnancy…if we can do it, so can you! We girls need each other.
Since I’ve gone online so many of you girls have emailed me your powerful stories. It has really been amazing! You can check out some of these stories in my Dear Becky column, or contact me yourself! You can register to join our Hot Topics Forum StandUpGirl.com Help Forum.
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Everyone knows that an unexpected teen pregnancy is a scary ordeal, be it you're keeping the baby, aborting, or adoption. My story is no different, because a scare is just as scary... You have all your plans flash before your eyes, everyone telling you their input...Read More
I'm 15 and I'm having a baby. I'm scared, and I don't want to mess this up. My baby is due May 27. I don't know yet if I'm going to keep the baby or give the baby up for adoption. I hope I make the right choices..... Thank you for all you comments! I have made the...Read More
Hi. I'm 17. And a few days ago I found out I was pregnant. I'm nervous, I don't know how to tell my mom. I'm scared of how she will react. And the money isn't the best right now. I don't want her to hate me, we have problems anyways. I am just so scared to tell her...Read More
I had a abortion when i was 17 in 2016 . i dropped out of high school my senior year . i was a "party girl" i guess you would day . i started dating this guy who sold pot and he became controlling and mentally and verbally abusive. i wasn't allowed to talk to my...Read More
My story starts when I was 11. I was being raped by someone I knew. The day after I turned 12 I found out I was about 6 1/2 months pregnant. I was so scared I didn't know what to do. They had to tell my father he was so sad. We hid it from my mother as long as we...Read More
So i decided that in order to get over the past maybe i should write about it, so this is my story. I'm 16 years old and currently staying with my grandma as things at home deteriorated. I'm in a situation were i have to grow up fast and become an adult. I try and...Read More