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You Can Get Through It
Written by Jamie   
ImageDear Becky.
I am writing to you as I hope that my story can be shared with all at SUG and hopefully will help other girls who are torn between choosing life and abortion.  I was 21 and had been with my boyfriend for 3 years when I found out I was pregnant in December 2007. My initial reaction was shock, as I was, at the time, a college student, with 6 months left until graduation. My boyfriend’s reaction was also shock, as we had always used contraception.
 
Doing This On My Own
Written by Jess   
ImageI was a party animal. Went out 3-4 times a week wasn’t much of a drinker but I loved to have a good time. One Saturday I went out with my girlfriends we were having a blast and we went outside for a smoke when this guy beside me tells this other guy that I look like some girl he knows, so I turn around and the other guys like "Yeah my cousin thinks you look like one of his friends" and we just started chatting and we were teasing the guy...
 
I was 18 and Confused
Written by Jessica   
ImageI just felt I needed to share my story. I was 18 and it was the end of march or beginning of april when I found out I was pregnant. My boyfriend and I (now fiance) were very confused on what to do.
 
What To Do?
Written by Helen   

ImageHi Becky,
I am 24, just started a new job and am in a relationship with a guy that was my best friend....  I have a 5yr old son and he is Great, i had an abortion 3yrs ago with my ex because he didn’t want the baby. 

I just found out that i am about 2 weeks pregnant but i am not sure if i should have the baby.

 
I'm a Young Mom
Written by Rachele   
ImageHi Becky,

I’m writing to day to hopefully inspire one girl, somewhere. I found out I was pregnant a little after i turned 17. I was a run away and heavily addicted to drugs. When i found out i cried for hours and when i told the father of my baby i was pregnant he said "take care of it" as in...get an abortion. I was mortified. That word in my head was not realistic, it sickened me to hear that from someone i cared so much about. I moved back home and stopped all drug use and started researching my options.
 
My Unplanned Pregnancy Decision
Written by Brooke   
ImageMy story begins as I was already a single mom stuggling to care for my 2 year old son.  On August 3rd, 2003, I non-chalantly took a pregnancy test, convinced at that time it would be negative.  I was wrong, 3 minutes and two lines on a stick later, I was floored to find out I  was yet again pregnant.
 
"What was best for me"
Written by Gabrielle   
ImageHi Becky, As the end of my senior year approached I felt different something had changed. Sure enough, a baby  was growing inside of me. I was 18 and found out I was pregnant 2 weeks after graduating.  I went to a clinic and I was 5 weeks pregnant. I was devastated. 
 
My Story
Written by Jessicca   
ImageI just found this website and want to say how awesome I think it is! I wanted to share my story. I know that young, unmarried women often need feel alone in pregnancy. The reason I feel that my story NEEDS to be shared is that I was married and got no support from my husband. I think it's important for women who are out there realize that no matter what your situation, abortion is NOT the answer.
 
My Choice
Written by Valerie   
ImageIn August of 1999 i was raped.  He was a friend who was high and he raped me.  I live in a small southern town.  Being friends with him and his sister was already a problem.  You see, i am white, and he is black.  In the beginning of October I found out i was pregnant. 
 
It Can be Done
Written by Jasmyn   
ImageHere I was 20 years old with 3 children no education, no guidance, not one person to
truly help me.  To make a very long story short. I knew I had to do better for my children.
 
I Went Through With It
Written by Lyndall   
ImageDear Becky
 
On the 18th of August I found out that I was 4-5 weeks pregnant. The father of  my baby, was my best friend and was already in a relationship with another girl, who is also pregnant and due in September. After we found out, I immediately told my parents...
 
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