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By the time I turned 16 years old I had 2 beautiful daughters. Not quite understanding the importance of parenting I did my best. In the relationship with their father I was abused mentally and physically. He cheated numerous of times and being that I was young without guidance I stayed in the relatioship until I gave birth to my little boy. Here I was 20 years old with 3 children no education, no guidance, not one person to truly help me. To make a very long story short. I knew I had to do better for my children.
I went back to school and obtained my High school Diploma aka (GED) at a community school. Not only that I accomplished a goal I never thought was an option for a single mother of three kids. I went to COLLEGE and obtained my AS Degree in business.
Not only that my children are doing very well in school. Their grades are unbelievable, both of my daughters make A's & B's each marking period.
I think turned out to be a GREAT MOTHER with GREAT CHILDREN.
To the teen mother/s that may be reading this today. Be encouraged, don't give up on yourself even when everyone else does. Every story can have a Terrific ending. It's up to you. Take it from someone who has walked in your shoes and once was there.
flicker4life says... written by flicker4life , October 13, 2008
oh that is so kewl any one can be a great mother whats ur story
breezee says... written by breezee , October 15, 2008
u r an amazing woman
mrs.dandridge says... written by mrs.dandridge , October 16, 2008
i would just like to say congratulations and keep your head up.
Nicolette says... written by Nicolette , October 16, 2008
WOW, that is so inspiring! You are such an inspiration for lots of young women and girls that might find themselves in the same situation... you really are a standupgirl!
My Dear Blessed, I happy to hear that u have not taken the opportunity to become a beggar, it is so great to hear of your accomplishment and your endless effort towards your children, make them do better than u have just done and be there t show them love at all time and at all situation.
By doing all this the good Lord who saw through all this critical time will really increase your joy. i wish u success in all u do and God's strength take good care u yourself
denise_angelu says... written by denise_angelu , October 18, 2008
I am happy to hear your story Jasmyn... Keep it up and you can be the best mom to your kids!
Have faith in God and you will survive!
hloni13 says... written by hloni13 , October 20, 2008
Hi. I am 23 had my boy when I was 22 and now I am 14 months pregnant. I am so happy that there is a girl out there who said forget my circumstances I am going to fight for my children and their lives. I was thinking of aborting as I am sure that my partner, family, friends and colleagues are not going to be on my side with this one. we find our selves worrying about how people will see you, or what people will think? how this is going to set my career back but truth of the matter is that all of that is not worth taking a baby's life away. I had just send a letter to Becky saying I am feeling suicidal as I dont know if whether or not I would be able to deal with all of this.and Thank God I read your letter. I now know what to do, I asked for an answer from God and I found it through you. Thank you for saving my baby's life.
it would be nice to chat on a regular basis
Hloni ( South Africa)
Robynbird says... written by Robynbird , October 25, 2008
Wow, it is true it can be done. I am now 21 and had a baby boy at 17, I went back to college and am now at University doing Forensic Science, my boy is now four and it's still just us two, but life hasn't been better.
lillie says... written by lillie , October 31, 2008
You have come a long way to better yourself. Having daughters r u going to tell them the best way to go. Help them to understand having a boyfriend at such a young age is not the real. What is real is loving the lord, loving self, education and independence. Good luck with your family and keep the Lord in your life. You are a #1 MOM.
I am so proud of you! written by living4us17 , December 22, 2008
i dont know you but i already can call you my idol. im 17 and i have my first child on the way.. i havent finished high school but luckily im a senior.. i feel the need to strive for the best for my unborn child but i have a lot a negativity coming from my family... but i hold you and your outcome with me and it makes me want to everything in my power to be the best mommy.
BellynMe says...God bless u. written by BellynMe , February 02, 2009
U r a true inspiration. im 24 mom of 2 and pregnant with my 3rd. i was feeling so down and lost. like "what do i do now with 3 babies?" my answer came through u. i keep my body healthy, my mind strong, and my spirit stronger. i know we'll be ok. Thank u 4 being who u r.
njulian says... written by njulian , February 05, 2009
Am so blessed to hear your story becausing it is encouraging.
very inspiring to those in the same situation...to knw dat anything is possible if u dnt give up..i think its great that u didnt let ur circumstances pull u down and that u held ur head on high, u keep doin dat n dnt let nothing pull u down:-)
u will be a great guidance to ur daughters, u will be telling them the rite advise from ur own experiences.....stay strong and making us single mother proud
luzikho says... written by luzikho , July 07, 2009
girl your story is inspiring, u should know that u have saved lives.
Chelly Chelle says... written by Chelly Chelle , October 01, 2009
Go head girl!
koketso says... written by koketso , October 13, 2009
ur story is very encouraging n u are a strong person keep it up n dnt lose faith
Sara2010 says... written by Sara2010 , November 06, 2009
Thats good..i hope you keep your head up...DON'T LET ANY ONE PUT YOU DOWN!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hollyr21 says... written by hollyr21 , November 09, 2009
Wow... Fantastic...I have wondered for so long if there would be anyone else out there at the ripe age of 20 with 3 kids. I had my son at 16, followed by my first daughter at 18 who was planned, then surprise surprise another daughter not long after my 20th birthday. I am now 21 my youngest is 20 months and my son will be heading off to school in a couple of months. I the same as you didn't have a chance of education, so the start of next yr I will be starting a course in aged care, Ive been stressing out how I am going to manage the full time study, a child's home work as well as school runs and alternate care for my daughters, it's going to be so hard but thanks to you publishing your story has given me the extra boost, knowing that this has already been done should make it easier for me. Rest well at night knowing that you've got yourself through it and so many other girls, congratulations your very special.
Donnie says... written by Donnie , November 11, 2009
you are very strong, and goal oriented. I remember when i had my first pregnancy, i didn't know i was pregnant until i was 6 weeks. The boyfriend i had at the time would abuse me mentally & physically on a constant basis, so i stayed...all the pain i went through, feels like yesterday..thought it would break me i was only 17 going on 18.. but im still here 20 going on 21..starting college in January.
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Dear Becky 
By the time I turned 16 years old I had 2 beautiful daughters. Not quite understanding the importance of parenting I did my best. In the relationship with their father I was abused mentally and physically. He cheated numerous of times and being that I was young without guidance I stayed in the relatioship until I gave birth to my little boy. Here I was 20 years old with 3 children no education, no guidance, not one person to truly help me. To make a very long story short. I knew I had to do better for my children.
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