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"What was best for me"
Written by Gabrielle   
ImageHi Becky, As the end of my senior year approached I felt different something had changed. Sure enough, a baby  was growing inside of me. I was 18 and found out I was pregnant 2 weeks after graduating.  I went to a clinic and I was 5 weeks pregnant. I was devastated. 
 
My Story
Written by Jessicca   
ImageI just found this website and want to say how awesome I think it is! I wanted to share my story. I know that young, unmarried women often need feel alone in pregnancy. The reason I feel that my story NEEDS to be shared is that I was married and got no support from my husband. I think it's important for women who are out there realize that no matter what your situation, abortion is NOT the answer.
 
My Choice
Written by Valerie   
ImageIn August of 1999 i was raped.  He was a friend who was high and he raped me.  I live in a small southern town.  Being friends with him and his sister was already a problem.  You see, i am white, and he is black.  In the beginning of October I found out i was pregnant. 
 
It Can be Done
Written by Jasmyn   
ImageHere I was 20 years old with 3 children no education, no guidance, not one person to
truly help me.  To make a very long story short. I knew I had to do better for my children.
 
I Went Through With It
Written by Lyndall   
ImageDear Becky
 
On the 18th of August I found out that I was 4-5 weeks pregnant. The father of  my baby, was my best friend and was already in a relationship with another girl, who is also pregnant and due in September. After we found out, I immediately told my parents...
 
Nice enough, but...
Written by Jackie   
ImageI just turned 21 years old & I've been dating this guy for 3 months now.  I never really wanted to be with him so I don't know why I've stayed. He's a nice enough guy but I don't get the butterflies & I don't like having him around much or really like him touching me. Then yesterday I got up the nerve to buy 2 pregnancy tests which both turned out positive, I also haven't got my period this month. I'm stuck between abortion & keeping the baby. I always said I'd have an abortion but I don't know if I could handle it afterwards.
 
He wants me to get an abortion
Written by Lisa   
ImageHey Becky it's jalisa and i have a question my and my boyfriend Michael been seening one antoher for 8 1/2 months..... we use to have fun... we had sex unproteced sex on his birthday but i was on birth control then we end up breaking up and then i found out that i was pregnant....
 
I hid my pregnancy well
Written by Haley   
ImageI found out I was pregnant halfway through my junior year. Nolan and I went to the store and bought a test. I waited until I got home and took it. Sure enough, it was positive. I never ever thought two little pink lines could be so scary. I took it again just to make sure. It was positive… again. I called Nolan and told him. We both cried. It was so terrifying.
 
Teenage Mothers
Written by Karen   
ImageI know that many of the teenage mothers out there are dealing with the thought of abortion and trying to figure out if they really want to give up their teenage years for a baby. I just want to share an encouraging word with them. I know that if I was strong enough to get through it all, then just about anyone can. There will be ups and downs of motherhood, but there are ups and downs in all of life, really.
 
My family's advice
Written by Kayla   

ImageI was 17 and pregnant from a one night stand.  My father tried to convince me to have an abortion, I already knew immediately that wasn't an option for me.  My mother wanted me to give the baby up for adoption.  My Uncle offered to pay for my college (4 year education) if I would give him my baby.

 
Morning kicked in
Written by Christy   
Dear Becky, I was inspired by this site and I wanted to help some of the girls that are scared and feeling alone by sharing my story. I was a senior in highschool when my boyfriend and I discovered that I was pregnant. We were ... really scared. The hardest thing that I had to do was tell my mom. I had waited so long that morning sickness had kicked in...
 
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