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The father's 37? He's my age and I do understand what you're going
through. People like me have a knack for being stupid at times and
getting involved with really young girls who're innocent (as compared
to us) gives a real high. Enough of that. When
I remember the fact that there was a time that I didn't want a child
and I lost that child, I really kick myself in the butt. I lost and
turned my back on a God-given angel!
He may not want the baby
now but it's really not up to him.
You have a baby in your tummy because you had sex not because it was God's will for you to be an unwed teen mother. He honors your choice to conceive. He does bless us in spite of who we are because He loves us and He will not deny Himself. And you can bet that He can and will work this out for good. But please --- do not be deceived and think that God is for premarital sex and making babies out of wedlock.
Mothers don't always know!!! but if you have had children you can
usually tell that someone you are close to is pregnant because you can
see the symptoms.
I was a single mother for many, many, years before I met my husnband. I know
how it feels to be alone, to struggle, and be homeless with a newborn
baby. With my strong determination to be a good mother and provider for
my children, we have made it along way. It is not impossible to be a
single mother and raise children. I know there are many stories like
mine out there. It is not uncommon to be a single parent.
I think you already know you're doing the right thing. It doesn't sound
like there's much to love about him except that he's a fellow human
being. He certainly didn't act in a way to deserve your love. Unfortunately, we (especially women) tend to be like a moth to a flame.
Just know that you're not alone in this kind of situation. Also, your
love for your child will far exceed any love you might have for this
man.
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"Every time a woman has an abortion it just crushes her self-esteem
smaller and smaller and smaller."
